Nemu — Divide
Distribute personal items from the comfort of home and move forward seamlessly. Raise hands, take turns, or use Nemu’s fair division algorithm — whatever fits your family best.

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WITHOUT NEMU
spent by the average family making lists, keeping track of details, and sorting out who-wants-what.
spent by the average family in fees, mediating with family, and pricing estate items.
of families experience stress and fighting due to an unstructured, opaque division process.

Best for: Families who want open feedback and flexibility.
Better than: Long group texts or family meetings asking 'Does anyone want this?' and tracking who-wants-what.
How it works:
Invite family, friends or community members to “claim” the items they’d love to have - and share why (optional).
Create a public link if you want participants to be able to share with their friends too, great for making sure things stay out of landfills!
Once everyone’s had a chance to express interest, the admin can assign items manually or let Nemu randomly distribute them.

Best for: Families who want structure and to take turns picking items, remotely.
Better than: Coordinating schedules and spending money on travel to take turns picking who-gets-what one at a time.
How it works:
Everyone takes turns selecting items in real time, like a friendly snake draft.
The admin can randomize the selection order or set it manually.
Nemu tracks selections and rounds so everyone gets a fair chance to pick what matters most.

Best for: Our flagship product, this was designed for families seeking balance, transparency, and fair division (hi, Mom!)
Better than: Spending time, money, and energy fighting over what is a fair and equitable distribution of items.
How it works:
Each participant privately scores items based on sentimental or emotional value.
Nemu’s proprietary algorithm calculates a fair distribution so everyone ends up with an equal total value - not necessarily in number of items, but in their value to the family. It’s the most equitable, data-driven way to divide belongings with confidence.
Once scores are in, the Admin publishes results and get instant allocation of items.
Whether you’re deciding on a lot or just a few things, Nemu makes it easy to see what’s there, who wants what, and agree on what’s next.
From planning and downsizing to caretaking or loss, Nemu helps decisions feel calmer, clearer, and easier for everyone involved.
Trusted by attorneys, advisors, organizers, realtors, and estate specialists to support families with clarity and transparency.
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Includes :
Centralized employee database
Clock-in/clock-out functionality
Applicant tracking system (ATS)
Learning management system (LMS)
Includes :
Centralized employee database
Clock-in/clock-out functionality
Applicant tracking system (ATS)
Learning management system (LMS)
Includes :
Centralized employee database
Clock-in/clock-out functionality
Applicant tracking system (ATS)
Learning management system (LMS)
Unlimited Uploads
1 division round
Export items in 3 formats
One time fee
Everything in the Starter plan
Instant price checks and Insight Reports
3 division rounds
Everything in the Standard plan
Unlimited division rounds
Appraiser & Selling support
You can mix and match! Families often start with Fair Divide for the most meaningful items — like heirlooms or sentimental pieces — then use Pick & Pass for everyday belongings, and Any Takers when opening up to the broader family or community. You can adapt as needs evolve, ensuring every item finds its right next home.
The proprietary formula Nemu uses to divide property - based on the emotional value scores that each participant provides - is grounded in mathematical fundamentals. Nemu takes all available variables, such as the total number of items and individual scores per item, into consideration. It then determines the best mix of items for each person, accurately representing their desires and ensuring that all participants achieve the best possible outcomes relative to each other. There truly isn’t a way to cheat this system, and those who try often find that they’ve cheated themselves. Our advice is for people to be authentic when assigning their emotional value scores. Don't worry about what others are doing; be honest with yourself and you will be satisfied with the outcome.
There’s no way to “cheat” the process. If someone scores everything high, they’re simply signaling that all items hold equal value to them, which keeps things balanced and fair.
Yes. Once a round is complete, results are clearly displayed to the admin and all participants — showing who received what and ensuring transparency. You can also download or share reports for your records.
Nemu automatically sends an email invitation to each participant with a direct link to join the round. You can also share a link manually if you prefer. Participants can view, score, and comment on items right from their phone or computer.
A division round is a focused session where your family or group decides what happens next for a selected set of items. You choose the method — Any Takers, Pick & Pass, or Fair Divide — and Nemu guides everyone through the process.
Each round can include as many or as few items as you like, and you can run multiple rounds over time. For example, start with a Fair Divide round for heirlooms, then a Pick & Pass round for household items, and finish with an Any Takers round to open things up to extended family or friends.
Nemu keeps everything organized and transparent — tracking who’s participating, what’s been decided, and what’s still up for discussion.
That’s exactly why Nemu offers multiple division methods. You can choose the method your group is most comfortable with. Our goal is to make decisions feel organized — not emotional. If you need assistance deciding, you can always schedule time with one of our team members.
No. You can pause and resume anytime. Nemu automatically saves progress so families can move at their own pace.