Nemu — Divide

Divide belongings peacefully

Distribute personal items from the comfort of home and move forward seamlessly. Raise hands, take turns, or use Nemu’s fair division algorithm — whatever fits your family best.

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WITHOUT NEMU

Dealing with 'stuff' can be overwhelming and costly

Alarm Clock

200+ hours

spent by the average family making lists, keeping track of details, and sorting out who-wants-what.

Money

$1,000+

spent by the average family in fees, mediating with family, and pricing estate items.

Emotional Distress

72%+

of families experience stress and fighting due to an unstructured, opaque division process.

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Different families. Different ways to divide.

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Any Takers

Best for: Families who want open feedback and flexibility.
Better than: Long group texts or family meetings asking 'Does anyone want this?' and tracking who-wants-what.

How it works:

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Invite family, friends or community members to “claim” the items they’d love to have - and share why (optional).

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Create a public link if you want participants to be able to share with their friends too, great for making sure things stay out of landfills!

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Once everyone’s had a chance to express interest, the admin can assign items manually or let Nemu randomly distribute them.

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Pick & Pass

Best for: Families who want structure and to take turns picking items, remotely.
Better than: Coordinating schedules and spending money on travel to take turns picking who-gets-what one at a time.

How it works:

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Everyone takes turns selecting items in real time, like a friendly snake draft.

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The admin can randomize the selection order or set it manually.

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Nemu tracks selections and rounds so everyone gets a fair chance to pick what matters most.

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Fair Divide

Best for: Our flagship product, this was designed for families seeking balance, transparency, and fair division (hi, Mom!)
Better than: Spending time, money, and energy fighting over what is a fair and equitable distribution of items.

How it works:

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Each participant privately scores items based on sentimental or emotional value.

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Nemu’s proprietary algorithm calculates a fair distribution so everyone ends up with an equal total value - not necessarily in number of items, but in their value to the family. It’s the most equitable, data-driven way to divide belongings with confidence.

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Once scores are in, the Admin publishes results and get instant allocation of items.

Where Nemu helps most

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Daily decisions

Whether you’re deciding on a lot or just a few things, Nemu makes it easy to see what’s there, who wants what, and agree on what’s next.

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Life changes

From planning and downsizing to caretaking or loss, Nemu helps decisions feel calmer, clearer, and easier for everyone involved.

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Professionals

Trusted by attorneys, advisors, organizers, realtors, and estate specialists to support families with clarity and transparency.

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Pricing

Test out Nemu and add 30 items to your inventory at no cost.

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Essential

Start building your insights hub

Includes :

  • Centralized employee database

  • Clock-in/clock-out functionality

  • Applicant tracking system (ATS)

  • Learning management system (LMS)

Premium

Build your premium hub today

Includes :

  • Centralized employee database

  • Clock-in/clock-out functionality

  • Applicant tracking system (ATS)

  • Learning management system (LMS)

Enterprise

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Includes :

  • Centralized employee database

  • Clock-in/clock-out functionality

  • Applicant tracking system (ATS)

  • Learning management system (LMS)

Starter

Perfect for families planning ahead and starting to declutter.

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    Unlimited Uploads

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    1 division round

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    Export items in 3 formats

Standard

Most used by families who are working to divvy-up a lot of items.

$249

One time fee

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    Everything in the Starter plan

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    Instant price checks and Insight Reports

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    3 division rounds

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Premium

Loved by families who are divvying up a household and need support.

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    Everything in the Standard plan

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    Unlimited division rounds

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    Appraiser & Selling support

Need more support? Our team can fully manage the process with a tailored package based on your needs and timeline.

Trusted by families and professionals nationwide

From families preserving heirlooms to professionals organizing estates, Nemu is the trusted digital tool to plan and decide what's next for your belongings.

"Nemu made my role as trustee manageable at a time when I was overwhelmed with all my responsibilities. The division of assets became something my family members looked forward to and everyone was pleased with the outcome. Thank you!"

Margaret

Executor

"When you put it in Nemu, then you know everyone has seen it. You know everyone has had the priviledge of having a choice and having a voice. And then the whole family is confident about what they should do with these things."

Colette

Executor

"It was user friendly and I would use this again in a heartbeat. It removed the tension and gave a very fair disbursement of items. It’s almost like the lottery which made it more fun."

Sandy

Family Member

“Nemu was so helpful to me. It kept me focused on what I wanted and what I wanted to share. It's a great record of where my treasured belongings are with relatives!”

Ann

Executor

“It felt great to participate in a distribution, it created the feeling that every bid was possible. At the same time, any emotional attachment was focused on your own relationship with the item under consideration, rather than a sibling's supposed sense of longing. For me, that is Nemu’s greatest function.”

Hal

Beneficiary

“I loved using Nemu as the distribution method for our family. By the time the announcement came with what items were ours, I had forgotten some of the items I had hoped to get and felt so pleased with the things we did receive. It felt like a very fair method of dividing things that had great emotional meaning to many of us.”

Teresa

Beneficiary

“We appreciate your help.  Your app has helped our family immensely.  Thank you!”

Eric

Executor

“Every single one of my siblings felt like they got just want they wanted - and that made me very happy.”

Maggie

Executor
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Frequently Asked Questions

Can I use different division methods, or do I have to stick with one?
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How does Fair Divide work? Can people game the system?
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Do I see the results? Can others see them too?
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How do people know when they’re invited to a round?
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What is a division round?
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What if we can’t agree?
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Do we need to finish everything in one session?
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